Becoming Her Collective
Becoming Her Collective
Coaching | Community | Practical Tools
For women ready to trust themselves, deepen their relationships, and create what comes next.
You’ve spent a lot of your life becoming who everyone needed you to be.
Maybe this part gets to be about becoming more of YOU.
The Becoming Her Collective is a monthly coaching and community experience for women ready to feel more confident, connected, and clear about who they are—and what they want next.
No blowing up your life.
No pretending you have it all figured out.
No turning yourself into another self-improvement project.
Just practical tools, honest conversations, meaningful reflection, and a circle of women figuring this shit out right alongside you.
$97/month. Cancel anytime.
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MAYBE NOTHING IS “WRONG.”
Maybe the life that used to fit you… just doesn’t fit quite the same anymore.
You’ve changed.
Your relationships have changed.
Your kids, career, body, priorities, friendships, desires, or responsibilities may have changed.
And somewhere underneath all the doing, helping, managing, and holding-it-together, there’s a question getting louder:
What do I actually want now?
Not what you should want.
Not what would make everyone else happy.
Not what the younger version of you decided 20 years ago.
What feels true now?
That’s the work we do here.
This is for you if:
- You’re craving deeper friendships and real connection with women who get it.
- You’re tired of overthinking every decision and second-guessing yourself afterward.
- You’ve gotten really good at taking care of everyone else—but aren’t always sure what you need.
- You want better boundaries without becoming hard or disconnected.
- You notice yourself people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, shutting down, overexplaining, perfectionizing, or repeating patterns you KNOW aren’t helping.
- You want to feel more comfortable asking for what you want.
- You want to trust yourself instead of constantly looking outside yourself for reassurance.
- You’re asking bigger questions about purpose, relationships, identity, friendship, confidence, and what you want the next chapter of your life to look like.
And maybe more than anything…
You want a place where you don’t have to do all of this alone.
BECAUSE MIDLIFE ISN’T
THE BEGINNING OF THE END.
It can be the beginning of being much more honest.
Honest about what works.
Honest about what doesn’t.
Honest about the relationships you want.
Honest about the ways you’ve been shrinking, performing, rescuing, tolerating, or waiting.
And honest about the woman you’re becoming.
The Becoming Her gives you a place to explore all of it without judgment—and the practical tools to actually do something with what you discover.
THE WORK COMES DOWN TO THREE THINGS:
#1 BECOMING CONFIDENT.
How you show up for yourself.
We work on things like:
- Self-trust
- Your inner critic
- Overthinking
- Emotional resilience
- Perfectionism
- Self-compassion
- Confidence
- Knowing what you want
- Listening to your own wisdom
Because authentic confidence isn’t walking around believing you’re fabulous every second.
It’s knowing: I can trust myself—even when I’m uncomfortable, uncertain, messy, or still figuring things out.
#2 BECOMING CONNECTED.
How you show up in your relationships.
We explore:
- Boundaries
- People-pleasing
- Communication
- Conflict
- Repair
- Asking for what you need
- Relationship patterns
- Codependent habits
- Vulnerability
- Friendship
- Belonging
You don’t need perfect relationships.
You need the skills to stay connected to yourself while you’re in relationship with somebody else.
#3 BECOMING IMPACTFUL.
How you show up in your life.
This is where we start asking:
- What matters to me now?
- What do I want more of?
- What am I ready to stop tolerating?
- Where have I been playing small?
- What would I pursue if I trusted myself a little more?
- What does purpose look like in this season of my life?
Impact doesn’t have to mean starting a business, changing the world, or doing something enormous.
Sometimes impact looks like:
- Finally saying what you mean.
- Starting the thing.
- Changing the relationship.
- Making the friend.
- Taking the trip.
- Speaking up.
- Choosing differently.
Or simply creating a life that feels more like yours.
THIS ISN’T “JUST THINK POSITIVE” COACHING.
Thank goodness.
You are allowed to be angry.
Sad.
Confused.
Jealous.
Disappointed.
Scared.
Over it.
Human.
We aren’t trying to eliminate uncomfortable emotions or slap affirmations over them.
We get curious about them.
We learn from them.
We build the skills to experience them without allowing them to run the entire damn show.
The goal isn’t to become endlessly positive.
The goal is to become someone you trust.
WHAT YOU GET INSIDE MODERN MIDLIFE MENTORSHIP:
TWO+ LIVE GROUP MENTORING + COACHING SESSIONS EACH MONTH
Bring the real-life stuff.
- The argument you keep replaying.
- The decision you can’t make.
- The boundary you’re scared to set.
- The friendship that feels weird.
- The career question.
- The resentment.
- The “Who the hell am I now?” moment.
You’ll receive coaching, perspective, tools, and support—and you’ll also learn enormously from witnessing other women work through their own lives.
Because someone else’s breakthrough has a funny way of unlocking something in us too.
A MONTHLY SKILLS CIRCLE
Each month we dig into one of the skills that helps us become more confident, connected women.
Topics might include:
- Self-Trust
- Boundaries
- Patterns
- The Art of Repair
- Communication
- Accountability
- Confidence
- Relationships
- Asking for What You Want
- Emotional Resilience
But we don’t just talk about them. We practice them. You’ll experience reflection, visualization, exercises, conversation, and tools you can actually use when real life happens.
COMMUNITY + CONNECTION CIRCLES
Because sometimes you don’t need another lesson.
You need women.
A place to show up.
A place to talk honestly.
Our circles give you space to pause, connect, reflect, be witnessed, and build deeper relationships with women who are doing their own work too.
No performing.
No fixing each other.
No pressure to share.
Just real women making room for real life.
YOUR MONTHLY MIDLIFE GUIDEBOOK
Every month you’ll receive a guide designed around our current theme with a mix of:
- Teachings
- Reflection exercises
- Journal prompts
- Visualizations
- Practices
- Rituals
- Experiments to try in real life
Use everything. Use one thing.
Come back to it six months later.
This isn’t homework.
It’s a resource library for becoming more intentional about how you want to live.
YOUR MONTHLY RHYTHM
Week 1
New monthly theme + guidebook
Live Mentoring & Coaching
Week 2
Community / Connection Circle
Week 3
Live Mentoring & Coaching
Week 4
Becoming Her Skills Circle
Simple enough to fit into your life.
Deep enough to actually change it.
AND YOU DON’T HAVE TO “KEEP UP.”
This matters.
There is no falling behind here.
Life gets busy.
You go on vacation.
Your kid needs you.
Your parents need you.
Work explodes.
You have a month where introspection sounds substantially less appealing than Netflix.
Come back when you can.
This isn’t another obligation.
It’s a place to return to yourself.
THE POWER OF DOING THIS WITH OTHER WOMEN
There are things we learn through coaching.
And there are things we can only learn through being witnessed.
When you listen to another woman talk honestly about something you thought only you struggled with…
Something shifts.
Shame loosens.
Perspective changes.
You begin to realize, "Maybe I’m not the only one figuring this out."
You learn from her courage.
She learns from yours.
And slowly, the very relationships we sometimes struggle with become part of how we heal, practice, grow, and become more ourselves.
Customer Success
Love notes...
“I use the tools I've learned from Christina ALL THE TIME.”
“The tools I've learned have helped me at work—making me feel much more confident about myself, what I contribute, and where my power lies—and at home, allowing me to be more connected with myself and my husband.”
Kaui"Christina is excellent. She has a talent for getting me to dive deeper into who I am, and what my potential is. I have shifted my ability to construct boundaries in my marriage that helps in all life areas. I loved connecting with the group and seeing how people shift while working on what applies to them. "
JamieChristina is amazing, she is intuitive and empathic and knows just when to be tough and when to be soft, is very good at asking what kind of feedback I need, and is great at this. I felt a huge shift in my relationship with my partner, his mother, and my career. I'm ready for bigger and better things. The way is paved.
Erica“I suddenly heard myself saying, ‘I really like me. I wish there were more of me to hang out with.’”
“I've never been excited to be me and now I am.”
Kelly“I would say my life is completely transformed.”
“I catch the negative messages quickly and I’m overall more conscious about how I am thinking and feeling and why I do what I do. I feel empowered… I am also 100 times more accepting of myself overall.”
Helena“Just having a safe space to share… without judgment and surrounded by other supportive women working on the same things was amazing.”
KW"Christina is kind, compassionate, and gentle. She's a person who is able to see through people's feelings and emotions. Her feedback is on point, challenging, and assertive. My biggest shift was accepting myself for who I am and letting my guard down to welcome new people into my life. I've allowed myself to look deep into my feelings and emotions and make sense of them."
IngridHi! I'm Christina!
I help women build authentic confidence so they can finally really like themselves.
Not the polished version. Not the productive version. Not the “everything is fine!” version.
The real one. The wise one. The sometimes messy, contradictory, emotional, hilarious, still-learning human underneath all of it.
I know what it’s like to create a life that looks good on paper and discover it doesn’t actually feel very good to live in.
That realization started me on years of learning about emotional resilience, relationships, thought patterns, self-love, boundaries, confidence, personal growth, and what it means to live more intentionally.
I read the books. Took the trainings. Earned the certifications. Tried the tools. Did the work.
And eventually I realized something:
Big shifts don't always require huge dramatic changes.
Sometimes we make big shifts through very gentle movements.
- A different question.
- A boundary.
- A new perspective.
- A hard conversation.
- A moment of self-compassion.
- A decision to stop abandoning ourselves just to keep someone else comfortable.
Those are the kinds of tools I teach.
Practical enough to use on a random Tuesday.
Deep enough to change the way you relate to yourself and your life.
xoxo, Christina
BONUS: UNLOCKING AUTHENTIC SELF-LOVE
Join Modern Midlife Mentorship and you’ll also receive my complete Unlocking Authentic Self-Love program.
Because self-love isn't just bubble baths, affirmations, or convincing yourself you're amazing.
It's learning how to stay on your own side.
Especially when you screw up.
Especially when somebody is disappointed in you.
Especially when your inner critic has a LOT to say.
Especially when you're changing.
Included free when you join Modern Midlife Mentorship.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to attend everything live?
No. This program is meant to support your life, not take it over.
Come to the sessions that support you most. Use the materials at your own pace. There is no falling behind.
Do I have to share in the circles?
Absolutely not. You are always invited to share, never required.
Sometimes participating means talking.
Sometimes participating means witnessing.
Both matter.
Is this therapy?
No. Modern Midlife Mentorship is coaching, education, personal growth, skill-building, and community. It isn't a replacement for mental health treatment or therapy.
Is this religious or spiritual?
The circles are grounded, non-religious, and inclusive.
We may use visualization, intention, reflection, ritual, or concepts like inner wisdom—but you are always encouraged to interpret those practices in whatever way feels authentic to you.
What if I don't know what I want yet?
Perfect. Seriously.
You don't need a five-year plan to belong here.
Sometimes the first step is simply creating enough quiet to hear yourself again.
Why group coaching?
Because women learn from women.
You receive coaching for your own life, but you also gain perspective through hearing other women's questions, struggles, discoveries, and breakthroughs. And instead of doing personal growth alone, you get to practice connection while you're doing it.
WHAT WOULD CHANGE IF YOU TRUSTED YOURSELF MORE?
- What conversation would you finally have?
- What would you stop apologizing for?
- What boundary would you set?
- What would you ask for?
- Who would you spend more time with?
- What would you stop doing?
- What would you finally allow yourself to want?
You don't have to become a whole new woman.
Maybe you just need the support to come home to the woman who's already there.
MODERN MIDLIFE MENTORSHIP
Monthly Coaching
Mentoring
Skills Circles
Community Circles
Monthly Guidebooks
Tools + Practices
A Community of Women
$97/month
Your rate stays locked in for as long as you remain a member.
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